I'm very opinionated. If I don't like something, it's known. I'm not programmed to keep things to myself and rarely do I do things I don't enjoy (other than work....that's part of being an adult I suppose). As awful as that makes me sound, I have learned the difference between what is helpful and what is hurtful. (does anyone else think about all the things they know and get overwhelmed with all the things we'll have to teach our future children? Just me? Great.) For example, my friend is getting married in May and I'm a bridesmaid. It's a small simple wedding, there's only two of us, and it'll be so cute. Her colors are burlap, turquoise, and yellow. So, when I was looking for a bridesmaid dress I was looking for a yellow dress. I asked her (in case she had any preference) what color she wanted, and what she text back was not what I was expecting... Ready for it? RED. Really? Red? Where did red come from?? A couple months ago we were talking about flowers for my wedding, and I asked her what color flowers she was doing and she said again RED. This was the first
If I'm wrong somebody please stop me.I've reached an impass, if I were picking out my bridesmaid dresses and they though they wouldn't flow, I'd want them to tell me, "Sarah, what are you thinking? Was it wine night when you decided this??" Because I want my wedding day to be awesome. At the same time, it's my freaking wedding day, if you don't think the colors blend then close. your. eyes. -ok maybe not that extreme.- But really, it's her wedding day, if she wants red dresses she gets red dresses...... but what happens if the dresses are bought and the decorations are up, and she sees that it's all meehh? So to tell her or not to tell her. These are the wedding dilemmas that haunt me.
On the plus side, we put our deposit down for the church and the hotel for the reception. Now to find a photographer. Also, my grandmother has a gazillion time shares so she's giving us one for our honeymoon and we can't decide where to go! So any ideas would be more than welcome!
Have a fabulous Wedding Wednesday y'all!